Existential Tuesday: Is monogamy dead?

What is (or are) the best model(s) for an intimate relationship?

In theory, modern society makes it easier for everyone to choose their own kind of intimate relationship. We are no longer bound to the basic model of hetero salary-man & housewife, married and monogamous till the end of days, as consecrated by religious authorities. And yet, most people still try to stick to the model. Is this nature? Or nurture?

What other models are available to us? Long term, short term; one partner, multiple partners, no partner; open relationships; straight, bi, queer, or asexual; real life or virtual; romantic or pre-arranged; child-rearing or childless; official or clandestine? Should any and all forms of being together be sanctioned? And is any particular one of them better suited to our times than the others? both culturally and economically?

We can talk about the influence of dating apps on commitment, or the power of intimacy vs individualization, you name it. But we will have to talk about sex and love and togetherness in the context of personal freedom and cultural norms. Are we still able to bond when we’re all so used to having things our own way?

For inspiration, watch this TED talk by author Christopher Ryan on sex and pair bonding. There’s some talk about Darwin, bonobos, and sexually autonomous societies.

EXISTENTIAL TUESDAYS

Existential Tuesdays are small weekly* lunch discussions in the Nook of the TUD Library. Practice your critical thinking skills, learn to see the world from different perspectives, and hang out with your fellow deep thinkers in Delft.

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Explore SG’s related events this quarter on the theme: Loneliness

Is loneliness a totally normal, private feeling? Is it an epidemic caused by technology? Is it a silent killer or a beautiful part of being human? The Studium Generale theme for this quarter is Loneliness. Through a series of events focusing on loneliness, we can look at this fascinating phenomenon through different lenses. From writing workshops to philosophical examinations, we invite you to connect with others and talk through what loneliness means to you.

Existential Tuesday: Is monogamy dead?                                                                           | Nov 12th              | @ The Nook
Writing Huddle on Loneliness                                                                                                  | Nov 14th              | @ The Nook

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